Today we attended a church service in Bukavu. It was a special day: two choirs, ordinations of elders and deacons, communion, sermon (By Ed), and offering. About 500 over-packed the church. The service lasted 4 1/2 hours. Four. And one-half. Hours.
As I wrap up my last day in Congo, I thought I would give you a closer look at Ed and Brenda Buell. You may know the names. You may have even met them. But when you live with them for a week, you get an up-close and personal look at real life.
Ed and Brenda have been in Congo off and on for more that 34 years. Ed reports that he felt the call early in their marriage. Brenda did not. God wanted them in Congo and he gently persuaded Brenda to pack up, leave the Midwest, and live in Congo. Sounds simple. I bet it was anything but.
Currently Ed is serving as a director of Spiritual Formation and Congo Field Coordinator with African Christian Mission. Brenda is the Director of Tracy’s Heart; a ministry for rape victims. Brenda also oversees the women’s ministry in the churches here. In a season where many people are making plans for retirement, Ed and Brenda moved back to Congo. When asked why they came back, they simply reply, “God asked us to.” End of story. We would all do well to listen and obey like that.
Over the past week we have shared many meals together and I have asked tons of questions. Some of their adventures are worthy of a novel. Many of their stories make me shake my head in disbelief – eating elephant, accidentally blowing up a truck, evacuating the country, dealing with rodents, and chasing off robbers. Yet in all this they have trained and supported the pastors of Congo without fanfare.
Ed and Brenda fit into the culture of Congo as if they were born here. When I arrived, Ed picked me up at the airport in Rwanda and led me across the border into Congo. We went through immigration, customs, and the health center. We were the only white men to be seen. I figured at least Ed and I were in the same boat; two white guys in a foreign land. In our first encounter, Ed walked up to a Congolese official and started speaking fluent Swahili.
Make that ONE white guy in a foreign land.
Ed is tough. He is not mean, but he is firm. Last week the police pulled him over. They were looking for a bribe and made a big deal about the darkness of the tint on his windows. Ed argued that it was within the limits of the law. The officer disagreed. When the officer threatened to take Ed to the police station, he said “Let’s go. But I’m driving my truck there.” They guy let him go.
During the seminars that Ed and I taught, it was evident that the Pastors and Choir Leaders of the churches hold him in great regard. They look to him for advice and guidance. When he rolls up, they are eager to greet him. Conversely, you can tell that Ed loves these leaders. He supports them without making them dependent on him. His leadership is solid. The health of the churches here are due in part to the contribution that Ed (and Brenda) are making. Speaking of Ed’s better half . . .
Brenda is one of the best hostesses in the world. She made me feel at home the minute I got here. “If you are hungry between meals, find something in the kitchen and eat it.” And I have. She makes a killer chocolate cake and I helped myself to it multiple times. As a bonus, Brenda speaks fluent English, Swahili, and Sarcasm. Because Sarcasm is a 2nd language of mine, we have had a fantastic time this week.
Brenda is in her element at Tracy’s Heart. When we spoke to some women there, they gushed over Brenda. She is leading them from the hell of rape to the hope of Christ. They see her as a Godly mother who believes in them. Brenda would shrug off the compliment, but the truth is the truth. She is an amazing woman and is in her element.
The only downside to Brenda is that she has a cat. I’m not a fan. However, the presence of a cat means the absence of mice, so I have been tolerating the lesser of two evils.
Team Buell works together well. I am sure there are some rocky times, but these two get the job done and do it together, with little time spent on the petty things. I’m honored to know them and call them friends. They inspire me to live out the cause of Christ, wherever I am.